It's amazing how much a change in scenery can do for your morale when you're on bed rest. I spend my days on a mattress in the front room of our apartment and then go to my own bed at night so there's a difference between my day and night routines. I have a hard time sleeping as it is, especially because contractions and uterine irritability get worse at night, but I'm sure it would be worse if I didn't separate my days and nights and have a change in my day, especially when I have so little change and control in my life at this time. I look forward to the daily change from bed to bed, but coming to my in-laws for the weekend has made a huge impact on my mental state.
I'm still laid up and am still doing the same things to fill my day, but at least I have a different view and I got out of my apartment for awhile after being cooped up there for almost a month. B loves being with his grandparents, and I really appreciate the help they've given us this month (and beyond). I'm also glad they agreed to take me on this weekend so I can have a change. Being here with B also allowed J to get some studying and a few other things done, and best of all, he didn't have to worry about and take care of me and B for the day. I think it helped lower his stress level a little bit, and I'm thankful for that. Because J is less stressed, I am too and can focus on being still and calm so this baby can stay put for a long time still.
Here is a shot of the sunset from their living room window. What a lovely view!
Wow, M! I didn't even know you were pregnant. So, congrats on the little man! And I hope things go well, that you don't go crazy and that your body will hold out until he's healthy and developed enough to come. I'll keep you guys in my prayers. Thanks for sharing this with me.
ReplyDeleteLove and miss you guys,
Ginnie